tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6029252328200123966.post1734472026485375682..comments2015-03-22T12:34:28.137-06:00Comments on Wives Helping Wives: PerfectionWife Ahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13052685172760630668noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6029252328200123966.post-85166547594389179002012-03-06T15:51:56.134-07:002012-03-06T15:51:56.134-07:00Mac, I am with you. I don't want pity or sympa...Mac, I am with you. I don't want pity or sympathy either. Definitely a work in progress for me as well! <br />Anonymous, that is so frustrating I am sorry. Maybe finding at least one person to confide in might be helpful. I struggle with touch so I have no words of wisdom unfortunately. If you haven't already please join hopeandhealinglds.com for an online chat forum. You will be able to ask questions annonymously and I know many wise women will have ideas for you. Keep fighting.Wife Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13052685172760630668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6029252328200123966.post-51761682672491369292012-03-06T12:15:59.779-07:002012-03-06T12:15:59.779-07:00wishing i could be open with others. women all aro...wishing i could be open with others. women all around me have experience and i would like to speak with them. why can he touch me without a problem but its annoying and frustrating when i try touching him? i once felt beautiful and attractive but lately i feel so unattractive and shot down. i show my love by touch, i kiss, hug, and being intimate with my husband is the sweetest way for me to show my love but he does not allow me to show it, isntead i am ignored. he hasn't relapsed for a while but this just frustrates me, worries me ugh sometimes i wish i was a naive child againAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6029252328200123966.post-33438252423468899152012-03-01T15:29:08.918-07:002012-03-01T15:29:08.918-07:00This is a great reminder for all of us. I would lo...This is a great reminder for all of us. I would love to be honest with people about my struggles, but I certainly don't want to be in the spotlight in the train-wreck sense. I don't want people feeling sorry for me or forgetting who I am because all they think of is what I'm going through. I have gotten much better about seeking out and accepting help, but it's a work in progress.Machttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16251056309107388969noreply@blogger.com